UNDERSTANDING THE PROCESS:
- ABA Handbook for Clients
- The Process (flow chart)
- Outline of the Process
- Family Law Dispute Resolution
COLLABORATIVE PROCESS:
- Participation Agreement
- Collaborative Fee Agreement
- Your Steps Through the Collaborative Divorce Team Process
- Coaches:
- Financial Neutral:
- Child Specialists
- List of Collaborative Professionals
- International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP)
HYBRID PROCESS:
MEDIATION PROCESS:
COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR SPOUSE:
- Steps to Listening and Speaking
- Ground Rules for Communication
- Communicating Your Needs
- Interests That We All Have in Common
- Stress on the Brain
PARENTS:
- Tulsa Divorce Court Requirements for Divorcing Couples with Minor Children
- Helping Children Cope with Divorce
- Tips for Parents
- Effects of Divorce on Children
- Relocation Statute
- Visitation Discussion for Children Birth to 5 Year
- Oklahoma Advisory for Visitation
NEW CLIENT INFORMATION:
- New Client Intake Form
- Monthly Expense Sheet
- Protection through the Automatic Temporary Injunction
- Alternative Insurance Options
WORKSHEETS:
ATTORNEY FEES:
- How to Keep Attorney Fees Down
- Collaborative Fee Agreement
- Hybrid Fee Agreement
- Mediation Fee Agreement
- Litigation Fee Agreement
OTHER RESOURCES:
- www.IRS.gov has information about taxes of divorced and separated couples. Look for IRS Publication 504
- IRS Publication 504: Divorced or Separated Individuals
- Publication 501. Exemptions. Standard Deduction and filing information
- Publication 523, Sellling Your Home
- IRS Publication 551: Basis of Assets
- Publication 590: Individual Retirement Arrangements
- Publication 919: How Do I Adjust My Tax Withholding?
- Publication 929: Tax Rules for Children and Dependents
- Publication 938: Home Mortgage Interest Deduction
- Publication 972: Child Tax Credit:
- Form 8332 Release/Revocation of Release of Claim of Exemption for Child by Custodial Parent
- www.FamiliesInTransition.com - This is the Tulsa County Family Court website. It has the family law judges, their daily dockets, a child support computation program, resources and forms.
- www.YourDivorceChoice.com - This is the Oklahoma Academy of Collaborative Professionals website. It explains the collaborative process and lists all the members of our local group. These members have had specialized training in order to be collaborative professionals.
- www.CollaborativePractice.com - This is the collaborative professionals’ international organization called International Academy of Collaborative Professionals. This website also gives information about the collaborative process.
- www.OSCN.net - This is the court network for the State of Oklahoma. You may follow your court docket sheet on this website by going to the home page and clicking “court dockets”. You then choose your county, and type in your case number to see your docket sheet. This is also a good website for finding the statutes and case law.
- www.FCSOK.org - This is Family & Children Services who is the provider of the seminar “Helping Children Cope with Divorce”. They also have many other wonderful programs designed to assist divorcing families.
MISCELLANEOUS:
